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The 90 Day Cure

12 weeks to Break the pattern of unavailable relationships and attract a healthy, committed partner.


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A 90 day fantasy recovery course to strengthen your self-trust and break your relationship with fantasy in love addiction


WHO IS THIS FOR?

The 90 Day Cure is perfect for you if you…

  • You recognize yourself in the cycle of fantasy → hope → disappointment → rationalization → renewed hope and you're ready to understand why it can be so difficult to let go, even when part of you knows you're holding onto an idea more than a relationship.

  • You tend to make other people's needs, feelings, availability, or approval more important than your own — and you're ready to begin noticing where you give too much, wait too long, accommodate too much, or make yourself responsible for keeping a relationship alive.

  • You want to stop confusing intensity with intimacy, potential with reality, and longing with love — and learn how to experience relationships from a more grounded place.

  • You're ready for 90 days of intentionally stepping out of the fantasy and getting honest about what you actually want, what you are actually experiencing, and what you are actually participating in

    The 90 Day Cure is not right for you if…

  • You want to keep living in the fantasy because the fantasy feels better than facing what is actually happening.

  • You’re not interested in questioning the stories you tell yourself about a relationship, a person, or the future you imagine with them.

  • You want to continue making other people's feelings, needs, availability, or happiness your responsibility.

  • You’re looking for a program that will teach you how to make an unavailable person become available, turn uncertainty into commitment, or make a particular relationship work.

  • You’re not ready to practice seeing things as they are instead of as you hope they will be.


 
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Hi! I’m Shena Lashey

licensed professional counselor /
love addiction & relational Trauma coach

After 17 years of experience, I’ve helped hundreds of professional women break cycles of unavailable and trauma-bonded relationships. As a formally trained licensed therapist and trauma focused love addiction coach, I’ve spent over a decade helping women heal their patterns and build healthy, secure relationships.

Using my BGH Method, I guide women to restore self-trust, break repeating patterns, and finally attract fulfilling love.

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What You’ll Learn in 12 Weeks

How to recognize when you’re in romantic fantasy — and separate potential from reality.

How to break the cycle of obsession, analyzing, hoping, and waiting.

How to recognize and interrupt codependent patterns in your relationships.

How to stop attaching to who someone could be and respond to who they actually are.

How to let go of relationships and possibilities that keep you emotionally stuck.

How to stay grounded in yourself while dating — without losing yourself in the fantasy of love.


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INVESTMENT

best value:

$247
One payment of
$147

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COMMON Faqs...

 

YOUR SUCCESS DEPENDS ENTIRELY ON YOUR OWN EFFORT, MOTIVATION, COMMITMENT AND FOLLOW-THROUGH. WE CANNOT PREDICT AND WE DO NOT GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL ATTAIN A PARTICULAR RESULT, AND YOU ACCEPT AND UNDERSTAND THAT RESULTS DIFFER FOR EACH INDIVIDUAL. EACH INDIVIDUAL’S RESULTS DEPEND ON HIS OR HER UNIQUE BACKGROUND, DEDICATION, DESIRE, MOTIVATION, ACTIONS, AND NUMEROUS OTHER FACTORS. YOU FULLY AGREE THAT THERE ARE NO GUARANTEES AS TO THE SPECIFIC OUTCOME OR RESULTS YOU CAN EXPECT FROM USING THE INFORMATION YOU RECEIVE ON OR THROUGH THIS WEBSITE OR PRODUCT. When you purchase our product, you understand that there is no guarantee that you will achieve any particular result or outcome using any of the ideas, tools, strategies or recommendations presented. We make no promises or warranties concerning your likelihood of success, performance, future earnings, business profits, marketing performance, customer growth or results of any kind. You understand that with any business endeavor there is an inherent risk, including a loss of capital and loss of customers and therefore you assume all responsibility for any such risk.

EARNINGS DISCLAIMER: ANY EARNINGS OR INCOME STATEMENTS OR EXAMPLES SHOWN THROUGH OUR WEBSITE ARE ONLY ESTIMATES OF WHAT MIGHT BE POSSIBLE NOW OR IN THE FUTURE. THERE CAN BE NO ASSURANCE AS TO ANY PARTICULAR FINANCIAL OUTCOME BASED ON THE USE OF OUR WEBSITE. YOU AGREE THAT I AM NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR EARNINGS, THE SUCCESS OR FAILURE OF YOUR PERSONAL OR BUSINESS DECISIONS, THE INCREASE OR DECREASE OF YOUR FINANCES OR INCOME LEVEL, OR ANY OTHER RESULT OF ANY KIND THAT YOU MAY HAVE AS A RESULT OF INFORMATION PRESENTED TO YOU THROUGH OUR WEBSITE. YOU ARE SOLELY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR RESULTS.

TESTIMONIALS: I PRESENT TESTIMONIALS AND INSIGHTS ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE’S EXPERIENCES WITH MY WEBSITE FOR PURPOSES OF ILLUSTRATION ONLY. THE TESTIMONIALS, EXAMPLES, AND PHOTOS USED ARE OF ACTUAL CLIENTS. THEY ARE NOT INTENDED TO REPRESENT OR GUARANTEE THAT CURRENT OR FUTURE CLIENTS WILL ACHIEVE THE SAME OR SIMILAR RESULTS; RATHER, THESE TESTIMONIALS REPRESENT WHAT IS POSSIBLE FOR ILLUSTRATIVE PURPOSES ONLY.